Vin
August 25, 2026 at 3:05:50 AM
Okay, confrontation about this because more and more people are sending me proof of you backtracking, so about the things you said, i NEVER villainized coal or treated her like she was 'despicable' i said she was an awful person yes because her actions reflect on that. No mentally ill person is perfect but they are still responsible for their actions especially concious decisions, you say i was stereotyping coal to be 'aggressive' while ignoring they WHERE passive agressive to me during the last altercation we had despite me not insulting her and trying to be respectful i didn't contact or attempt to talk to them about this because i didnt think theyd treat it with any respect or even listen to me. , you personally won't experience an outside veiw of coals behavior because youre a friend and see a different side of her, acknowledging someone is mentally ill and i sympathize does not mean i will ignore her actions in General, your own version of my convo is going around while ignoring other parts of it. I never said mentally ill people have to get better right away, the issue is they where actively and conciously lashing people around them and they should stay offline and work on how they treat people
And just to add, i do not condone or associate with anyone under this page sending you slurs, threats or other inappropriate behavior
Replied on: August 25, 2026 at 3:44:56 AM
i realize that now , and i was under the impression that you had did , since all the information that was told to me was the person claiming that YOU did all of that stuff . i realize that now , after the conversation we had in our whispers ( and i did not at all mean to be passive agressive so i apologive for that ) . im not saying coal isn ' t responsible for her actions , she is , as i have said many times , what she did was wrong and weird and she shouldn ' t have said that to your or your friends .
i wasnt fully aware the confrontation you two had together , because i assume when you two were talking , i was handling something else and / or afk . i am not always online on PT even though i might seem to be . i dont always have the full context of things and the only thing i was aware of from the conversation you two had was when coal had called you slow . that ' s it . i dont know about anything else about what you two said .
you not contacting her about it is fine , i understand you mightve not wanted to due to what happened ( though you still should ' ve tried this is not something i will blame you for , your feelings are valid ) . im not going to speak further on this .
i never said you claimed mentally ill people have to get better right away , i said you were hypocritical BECAUSE you were mocking coal , and saying rude shit about her before we even had the chance to start up our conversation . hence why i mocked you for doing that . as well as the fact that your friends began to randomly ?? dogpile on me ?? during the conversation i had with you and them , which is also why i think you were hypocritical . and , if you did care , you guys wouldn ' t have believed the person who falsely accused her of doxxing and telling people that she told random peopel to kill themselves and other nonsense . i am not saying you cant say she is mentally ill , that is a fact , but if you want to " sympathize " with her , atleast hear both sides instead of letting your friends speak for you /nm .
coal also doesn' t " lash out " on randoms ?? by lash out i am assuming you mean swear at them and whatnot . she doesn ' t do that ( unless you mean her swearing at weirdos , that' s different and she doesn ' t even do THAT often ) . she simply tells random people to go away whenever they try to sit with us . if that is considering lashing out to you , i am not sure what to say . none of us like when random people sit next to us . it makes us extremely uncomfortable unless we give the permission for them to do so .
this is not meant to be mean / passive aggressive or what not , and i appreciate you reaching out once more . coal is still working on herself . and as far as i know , she nuked her account and had her handle stolen ?? if you care about that .
have the day you deserve 